Hey everyone. I hope you’re well Instead of answering one of your Love Lounge questions today I thought I’d do a general hints and tips video regarding the Love Lounge. You send us in some brilliant questions all the time that really get us thinking about the answers so thank you so much for writing into us. But quite often a lot of the questions that we get asked have quite similar themes and require quite similar answers. And I’d say that the top questions that we get asked are Firstly about disclosure of disability so whether or not you should be disclosing your impairment. Whether on online dating profiles or when you are meeting someone for the first time. And the other two questions that we get asked a lot are about positions during sex and also pain during sex so a lot of bedroom talk there. And actually the answer that we give to all three of those questions is quite similar. Of course we give specific advice but actually what we are mostly talking about is having the confidence to communicate. When you’re disclosing your impairment its about having the confidence to own that impairment . Not necessarily having to be proud of it but knowing what your limitations and capabilities are. And also knowing how somebody can help and putting them at ease as well. And of course when it comes to pain and positions, again its about having the confidence to communicate that to your partner. What’s going to work for you and what might not and actually having the confidence to say you might be having a great time but please can we stop because this isn’t working for me. If you like someone enough to be sleeping with them they should be liking you enough to listen to what you have to say. And actually taking that on board So, that is my little video for today. Have the confidence to communicate these things to your partner when it comes to love, sex, dating and disability. And if you have any more specific questions on these kinds of things or if you’d like Mik or I to go into a little bit of detail when it comes to communication Please do let us know. Hope you have a lovely day and I look forward to reading more of your questions soon!